Mom


There once was a little bunny who wanted to run away.
So he said to his mother, "I am running away."
"If you run away," said his mother, "I will run after you.
For you are my little bunny."*

Happy Mother's Day.
To a mom who has always come to find me.
 No matter how far away I've gone. 

(And has pretty nice taste in books). 

Me and Mom in Colorado, Easter, 2008.


*From "The Runaway Bunny" by Margaret Wise Brown


Down four participants, with rain in the forecast, and Sunday plans for half the group, we called off our camping trip to Wyalusing and went to the cabin instead.  For once, I'm glad we cancelled a camping trip (I generally don't like to cancel under any circumstances except Biblical flooding, which actually occurred once last summer) because it rained all Friday night and was damp and gloomy on Saturday. We were joined by Brad and Julie and three terriers - Dodger, Brewer, and Ranger. Julie just completed her first year of grad school on Thursday, and was in need (and very deserving) of a weekend of relaxation. So relax we did. We kept a roaring fire in the fireplace, popped a few beers, caught up, and spent several hours playing board games, specifically Trivial Pursuit and Apples to Apples, two of my all-time favs. I'm relaxed, refreshed, feeling in touch, and really happy I don't have to spend this week drying out our camping gear prior to our trip to Colorado Saturday. 



We drove to Menards in Platteville tonight to get some more river rock for the yard. Mike looked over at me and declared "Happy Anniversary." Awe. It's our six month anniversary.

Except the wedding was in October.
November...December....January... wait a minute!


As of Thursday, April 30th, we are homeowners. I realized today that we closed exactly four years (to the day) after we met. Awe. Mike carried me across the threshold when I got home from teaching that night. Awe. And that was the end of the sappiness.
And the begining of reality. Homeownership is exhausting. We spent most of last weekend cleaning out the garage and basement as we hadn't done much with either since we moved in. And this weekend, it was time to tackle the yard. Our yard is an ugly ugly place. Rumor has it that somebody actually bulldozed it prior to it going to estate sale. I believe it. The backyard is basically a small patch of yard next to a large, bare, patch of dirt, currently covered in weeds. The front yard was completely ripped up from construction and the removal of a hideous brick planter, and is now covered in dirt in an attempt to patch it up. We spent more than 10 hours this weekend poop scooping, raking, digging, and planting grass seed. We bought 600 pounds of rock and covered (approximately half) of a particularly awful area of the lawn with river rock. Eventually (i.e. after we buy another 600 pounds of rock) it will be a doggy poo area in an attempt to keep the yard spot free. My parents have hinted that they might come up while we're in Colorado in a few weeks and plant flowers. Oh, I hope so!
Of course this is all just the beginning. We need to cut down trees, paint the house, put up shutters, replace windows, install the new fire pit we bought this weekend, create something prettier than the concrete slab currently surving as the patio, and a gazillion other projects during this summer. I think I need a nap!


Yes, I am a blogging slacker. But I have reasons. I have three jobs. Academic-related jobs. And the end of the school year is coming up. So my jobs are insane right now. I feel like I am working all the time. I spent three nights and five days in Madison over the past two days. And that is just for one of the three jobs.
On a happier note, my basement and garage are now cleaned out and lovely. We're working on the yard this weekend. And going camping in a week or so. Hoorah!


The "Ruffin' It Wisconsin" crew (8 humans and 6 dogs) met for our first camping trip of the season this weekend. We chose Devil's Lake State Park in Baraboo in the hopes that Wisconsin's largest state park would be less crowded this early in the season than it is later in the summer. Well, it was less crowded than in, say July, but we still managed to hit the first 70 degree weekend of the year, so there were still quite a few people out enjoying the park.
We had a wonderful time and it was really nice to see everyone and spend some time around the campfire catching up. We took a long hike on Saturday around the lake, up Balanced Rock trail (which is almost verticle), and along the ridge above the opposite shore. I misplaced my camera and didn't get too many photos, but here are a few of the crew out in the sunshine.

My review of the park:
Devil's Lake is actually one of my least favorite of Wisconsin's state parks. It is always incredibly crowded and is so touristy. We chose it hoping to have it more or less to ourselves this early in the year, but it didn't turn out that way. Only one of the three campgrounds is open this early in the season, Quartzite. While the other two campgrounds are wooded and campers have at least some privacy, Quartzite is a former golf course and looks like it. We were completely out in the open and could see every other camper in the park. It felt like camping on a golf course, or at least in an RV park. The trails are plentiful although I am not the biggest fan of asphalt over natural surfaces. I do enjoy the Balanced Rock trail (which reminds me a bit of the stairs of Cirith Ungol in Lord of the Rings) and the views from the top are spectacular. Devil's Lake State Park is a camping destination for people who don't camp. This aside, I had a great time and look forward to our next camping trip.


I am a messy person. However, I hate living in a messy house. It stresses me out. I cannot relax when I know that the kitchen floor is sprinkled with dog hair or the bathtub needs to be scrubbed. I also do not feel that it is my sole responsibility to clean just because I am the only occupant of the house with a uterus (except may the turtle, althought she may be a boy, and I'm not sure if turtles even have uteruses...or is it uteri????). And this causes a strain on my marriage because my husband is also messy and does not enjoy being told he has to help me clean.

Anywho, it has been my life long dream (or at least my moving out of my parent's house dream) to have a cleaning lady. I always decided it would be my one indulgence in life if I could ever afford it. We don't have cable, our internet is free, and we are very good about living within our budget and saving everything we can. Well, as I am currently working three jobs and would rather enjoy my time at home than stress about it, I decided to hire somebody to come once a month, I'll take care of it the rest of the time.

She came for the first time today. We got home from work and school and opened the door to a house that smells like lemons. The blanket on the couch is folded. The shelves are dusted. There is not a dog hair to be found on the kitchen floor. The bathtub is scrubbed. The dishwasher is filled. I am in heaven.